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And who is most likely to engage in age-gap relationships, and why?

For many older men, it was also a point of pride and self-worth, as they felt that their age and experience made them more attractive and desirable to younger men. In contrast to what many people assume, I found little evidence of widespread power differences that harmed either the younger or older men.

We spoke to UBC sociologist Dr. Tony Silva about why younger adult men are interested in older men for sex and relationships. Contrary to the popular stereotype of older men going after younger guys, it was often younger men who approached them on dating apps once they had silver hair or had other physical markers of aging, and that really sparked their transformation into a daddy.

The youngest daddy I interviewed was 43, and in general, men started seeing themselves as daddies in their 40s. From accepting your attraction to older or younger gay men, to how to actually find your perfect partner. UBC News. Through these stories, we can gain insights into the nature of man/boy relationships in various manifestations and social settings.

Many of the younger adult men also found age-gap pairings sexually exciting and emotionally fulfilling and were drawn by the idea of having a mentor or role model in their partner. As daddies, they saw themselves as providing emotional support, wisdom and life experience to their younger partners: whether that means helping younger adult men figure out career paths, how to come out, or how to integrate into gay and bisexual communities.

Looking for a new story idea? Front cover of Dr. 'Wolves' is the story of Josh, a sixteen year-old boy from a small town in the English countryside. Some of the reasons why the younger adult men pursued age-gap relationships included a preference for emotionally mature partners, finding older men physically attractive and a desire to learn from older men.

Search Subscribe. Silver daddies: Why do young adult men like older partners? The term has gained popularity in recent years, and while it is used in the context of heterosexual, gay or bisexual relationships, research across the Western world shows that age-gap relationships are far more prevalent among gay and bisexual men than any other group.

This research helps us move beyond stereotypes. I was interested in finding out why, and learning more about the older men who identify or are perceived as daddies, and what it means to them. Man/Boy Love is as old as love itself, and stories of it have been told for thousands of years.

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Some of the older men actively identified as daddies, while others did not necessarily identify that way, but still fulfilled a daddy role and were aware that others saw them as daddies. For many of the older men I spoke to, being a daddy was not just about age and sexual and romantic partnerships, but also a sense of responsibility, mentorship and guidance.

Sachi Wickramasinghe. For this book, I interviewed men in their twenties and thirties who partnered with older men, and men in their forties through late sixties who partnered with younger adult men in their twenties and thirties. Living alone with his father with whom he has a complex and often confrontational relationship.

What is a daddy and why were you interested in studying them? Here are some tips and help you confidently find your magic match. Sep 12, We spoke to Dr. Silva about his findings. Check out our latest News Tips. Many people think of a daddy as a desirable, confident older man who may be paired with a younger partner.